Most parents are very involved in their child's schooling.
Nonetheless, as their children become teenagers, these teenagers are becoming more independent and are increasingly involved in activities outside the family. During this time however parents should and must remain the most influential person in the life of their teenager.
Through the involvement of parents in school and extracurricular activities, parents can do much to help their teenagers believe in the value and importance of education. Be enthusiastic about learning and achieving academic success.
What you as parents can do to stay in touch with your teenager:
- Show interest in your teenager’s studies, by taking the time on a daily base to talk about what has been learned and done in school (don't take "nothing" for an answer!).
- Discuss ideas and feelings about school, studies, and activities. Let your teenager vent their frustrations. Be supportive.
- Talking over any concerns or problems builds trust between you and your teenager. (restrain yourself from anger)
- Consistently acknowledge and reward efforts at school.
- When your teenager works hard, your acknowledgment motivates them to persist.
- If you get your teenager's trust, your teenager will never disappoint you.
- Give your teenagers responsibilities so they learn and develop self-esteem.
Treasure their trust!
